Debunked: Common male beliefs

We’ve come a long way here: from a little known plane-featuring blog (2013), to the best alpha male blog for techies (2017), to the world’s premier power site for men (2018). I stressed that I loath writing age-segmented advice. I don’t believe in age-centric advice for men: men in their 20s, men in their 30s, men in their 40s, men in their 50s…Men, regardless of age, want the same thing: improve. You can improve at any age and that’s what I’m here for.

Will debunk for you today some myths held in deep regard, perpetuated by the lack of wisdom and experience of men.

1. The myth of the “HB 10”

The myth of HB10s stems from PUA Mystery’s “system of seduction”, where girls are ranked from 1 to 10. Accordingly, a 6 = fuckable, 7 = cute, 8 = beautiful, 9 = handsome, and a 10 = perfect. This whole “system” is non-sense. There are no “10s”, or “9s”, or anything like it in real life. You will never meet a ten or a one. This classification is idiotic.

Girls are only of two kinds: Ok and Not-Ok. Period. I don’t have “hot” or “gorgeous” in my vocabulary. I don’t use these words anymore.There are no grades from 1 to 10. It’s like graduate school: pass or fail. Pass or no-pass. Now, you realize that someone could be getting a pass score based on your mood of the day. That happens, it is very much part of the “Pass and No Pass” system. Surely, this two-category system is subjective, someone may get a “pass” from me and will not get a “pass” from you. But that’s Ok. That’s how life is. Alpha-male life that is, not wimpy-dumpy life.

You now have a much better, two-tier system for sorting out women.

2. The above issue reflects a much deeper problem in the society: the problem of worshiping of female beauty. Female form is equated to grace and value. Let’s face it, men are at fault here: the worshiping of the female “goddess” by feeble-minded men. There is no inherent value in an individual born to certain standards of beauty. Men need to stop assigning value to women they perceive to be “beautiful”.

Men’s writers and bloggers have written 1,000s of articles and books directed to attracting “beautiful” women. They’ve prostrated themselves before their female “goddesses”. These writers are dumber than a 2-pack of pacifiers. They are beta and omega males, forever ruled by their worship. Don’t be like those wimps. Do not worship the female form. Do not value a woman above the rest because of her looks. Her looks are not an asset (as much as she wants you to believe so).

Quote of the day: “If you learn to laugh at your own stupidity, all your crap will turn into manure very fast. And manure is good for growth.” -Sadhguru

3. The myth that a woman must cook for her man

For a cohabiting couple, it is mandatory the woman cooks, they say. I don’t believe that. However, I believe that an alpha male should cook for himself. Yes, the alpha male should be his own food-maker. That’s what’s mandatory.

4. The myth that she **should** “look good”

Her looks and her efforts are not your problem. You need to look good. If she doesn’t take care of herself, that is not your problem. Keeping a woman on an exercise program, gentlemen, is not your issue. Don’t look after her.

Your issue is How You Look

Up in the morning, when you look in the mirror, how do you look ? Your face, your tone, your skin. That’s what’s important. That’s your priority. Not what she looks.

5. Dating Apps

I am a skeptic of online dating and popular dating apps like Tinder, etc. It’s a terrible waste of time. If you can’t get a girl in your day-to-day life, how can you get one by swiping on your phone? Every girl has a good photo. If your grandpa was around, he’d laugh at you. Dating apps are best avoided, but if you must join, do this:

If she’s flaking on a first date, next her.

After a fist date, the two-strikes-you’re out rule comes into effect. She can cancel once, but after a second flake she’s out.

Again, I don’t play dating app game.