Howard Marks of Oaktree Capital Management [net worth $2.2 Bn] is a guy who regularly sends out his investment briefs and is well regarded in the investment world, almost every fund manager reads him. If you wanted to read his latest, click here. But that’s not why we’re here. We’re not here to talk about Covid-19 and the economy. I thought, why not write with a “Memo from” format. Not going to make it regular though.
The last post “10 Tips for your Women life” made some readers ask: “Well, how do I get laid like you, Max ? How can I score like a champ ? How do I keep them coming ?
Fair enough. You want to be the Don Juan of Booby Fields.
You’re looking at me like I’m the Howard Marks of Booty Calls.
Understand: unless you have a specialized set of skills, unless you have many techniques under your belt, your lay number will be small. You’ll get a woman down for 3 lays, or 30 lays, and then she’ll leave. She will leave you…because it’s the same thing every time and who wants the same thing over and over again ? Nobody does.
Number 2 on my “10 Tips” clearly states: “While in a relationship, you need to line up your [sex] dates in “lessons” fashion.“
You need to maintain a Master -Student rapport at all times.
Give a little…every time.
Change, recharge, variate the interaction-of course you need to be sexually skilled for that. You have to go beyond the plain vanilla sex skills of the average guy, or you’ll never be a playboy.
Everybody says that “makeup sex is great”. Why ? Because makeup comes after a breakup. What they’re missing is the part that’s a one time event, then … still the same ol’.
Still stuck in a rut.
Lessons -sessions need to arranged in methodical fashion. It takes 7 year, on average, to master a skill. It takes a lifetime to master golf. Imagine that.
In this sport -sex- having more partners does one good. Experimenting is paramount.
For the playboy -make no mistake -women are a sport.
Personalize, accessorize. This is a process. You either love process improvement or you don’t.
Then you have to tailor it to your lover. To each one. If you don’t do that, your conquests will be few, and your flings will be short-lived.
Lessons and practices
- Buy the woman/wife a stripper pole and make her work on it every day. I already suggested it last December.
2. BDSM. There is light BDSM and there is extreme BDSM. We’re not here to promote Hogtied. You shouldn’t tie anybody who is not someone that you know well, and who you’re not comfortable with. You can check out Ballistic Metal Suspension Bar with chain / Spreader Bar or this Heavy Duty Suspension System. But sex that’s not kinky, it is lost.
3. Kinky is also if you have your partner suspended in the air and you fuck [preferred pronoun] upside down and sideways. You could try a Aerial Yoga Hammock Anti-gravity Inversion Swing Trapeze Belt Ceiling system. It’s inexpensive. (example: from China: buy link)
4. Threesomes are an experience, but there so much to talk about, it deserves a separate writing. Threesomes can be fully engaged, OR where you’re fucking another woman and she is ONLY WATCHING (voyeur-role).
5. What about foursomes ? Orgies ? They don’t work unless there’s a directing dynamic from you. In other words, you are directing here with verbal commands and gestures: do this and that [with that couple/guy/girl/group] and you stay connected. This is a Director’s job. If you lose that connection, you’ve lost. That is why this is an advanced practice and can easily backfire.
Remember: if you’re not maintaining the Master-to-Student dynamic, you haven’t done a thing.
Lessons should be graded. If the student is not making progress in class, guess what ? She gets a F (hopefully not); you may not be compatible after all.
Let us have students who are happily As and Bs. Flunkies usually get dropped.
Ready ?
Coming right behind that tree.
Easter eggs game: Where’s the egg ?
We play that game a lot, he-he.
Wow.
The Internet sure made me famous last weekend.
After making a comment somewhere, people started circulating the Max Cantor Treatment :
It refers to throwing a woman out of your place without giving her the time to put on her shoes. (barefooted).
But this is the context of it: When you have a woman coming to your place, undress and suddenly “changing her mind” -her mind was never to have sex with you to begin with (cock-tease power move).
Lol. People are going crazy over this.