what is an alpha male | Wall Street Financier: Notes from High Altitude© https://wallstreetdealmaker.com He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man. Tue, 31 Mar 2020 04:24:50 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://i0.wp.com/wallstreetdealmaker.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/pitbullgif.gif?fit=32%2C22&ssl=1 what is an alpha male | Wall Street Financier: Notes from High Altitude© https://wallstreetdealmaker.com 32 32 155119938 Corona Game https://wallstreetdealmaker.com/2020/03/corona-game/ https://wallstreetdealmaker.com/2020/03/corona-game/#comments Mon, 30 Mar 2020 19:08:05 +0000 https://wallstreetdealmaker.com/?p=2065 We’re leaving the nerds behind today. Did you really think I like talking about The Practical Byzantine Fault Tolerance (PBFT), SIEVE, Cross-Fault Tolerance (XFT), Proof of Elapsed Time, Hyperledger Iroha, Hyperledger Burrow, Ripple & Stellar Blockchain, Ripple Consensus Protocol Algorithm, Stellar Consensus Protocol Algorithm, and other nerdy stuff ? No … Continue ReadingCorona Game

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We’re leaving the nerds behind today.

Did you really think I like talking about The Practical Byzantine Fault Tolerance (PBFT), SIEVE, Cross-Fault Tolerance (XFT), Proof of Elapsed Time, Hyperledger Iroha, Hyperledger Burrow, Ripple & Stellar Blockchain, Ripple Consensus Protocol Algorithm, Stellar Consensus Protocol Algorithm, and other nerdy stuff ? No way !

Three readers who wished to remain anonymous and self-described themselves as “woman-pros” emailed me with their “Corona -time” women lay tips. While the rest of the male population (sadly including myself) have less lays these days, three guys, Bill, Evan and Mike, say they’ve increased their lays -the number of women they’ve slept with – organically and under the conditions of “social-distancing”.

How the fuck is that possible if public venues are closed, you can’t go to show, a pub, a meeting and (for most) you can’t even travel anywhere ? At first I thought they’re getting the women who smoke cigars – like the guy below probably did.

Fidel was a womanizer alright


This is what these three noble gentlemen had to say (mix-and-match)

Bill: It’s nurses time

Nurses and health-care workers have their priorities straight. I got a nurse whom I spotted in a parking lot on a same-day lay. I came straight-faced to her when she was almost getting ready to get into her car:

  • I said: I know you’re washing your hands. Let’s go home and get into the shower together.
  • She looked at me starry-eyed and said: I’m sorry ?
  • I said: You know hygiene and contamination protocols. C’mon , let’s go. I live 10 minutes away – a short walk. Leave your car where it is.
  • Her: Whaaat ?
  • I said: You’ve worked hard all day. You can’t even go outside without a mask anymore. Leave your stuff in your car. Let’s go.

We went over to my place and it was a better fuck than I’ve had in weeks…and the best she ever had, to be sure. Remember: a nurse, coming from work (she was still wearing nurse uniform) is ready.

Evan: Grocery store soldier

In a grocery store I spotted a hottie in black leggings, blond hair cropped short, good curves. Once she crossed my path more than twice I knew it was time to act.

  • From a distance: Me: I’ve been doing some running myself, you know.
  • Her: No response.
  • Me: As long as we’re keeping the 6 feet distance, I feel safe. (looking over my shoulders, 360 degrees around)
  • Her (responding for the first time): I know.
  • Me [looking over the items in her cart]: Boy, I’m glad these nut cases left some cheese for us.
  • Her: no response.
  • Me: You’re not working now, are you ?
  • Her: No.
  • Me: I just can’t stand it. What’s your number ? I’ll call you in a few hours to check up on you.
  • Her: Gives out phone number. After I entered it, I got her to say her name out to me, then left. Easy-peasy.

Mike: Old contact lay

Yesterday morning I went though my phone. I have to say I never cleaned my phone list, not in last 5 years for sure. Although I do have it organized-a bit-, there are plenty of numbers of women that for some reason or another I never followed up on. I thought that I should call some of these numbers. And so I called Nancy, who I must have met two years ago at a meeting. I think it was a formal meeting of sorts. Phone rang, and she answered.

  • I said: Hey.
  • Her: Hello, who is it ?
  • Me: This is Mike. Met you some time ago.
  • Her: Ahh.
  • Me: You’re at home ?
  • Her: Yes
  • Home alone ?
  • Her: Yes.
  • Me: You’re not working.
  • Her: No.
  • Me: Bad girl (laughing)
  • They’re keeping us safe like pets in a cage.
  • Her: says nothing, except suave giggle.
  • Me again: I know where you live you live by 24th street (I had no idea where she actually lived)
  • Her: No, I live in East Flatiron.
  • Me: Are you washing your hands ?
  • Her: I do.
  • Me: I have to see you do it.
  • Her: But I do.
  • Me: I’m not saying you don’t, I have to see you doing it. I’m coming over there. Unless your mom is there too. (I threw that in there, although she first said -lied- she was all alone)
  • Her: She is.
  • Me: Then come over to my place. No, wash your hands first, then come on over.
  • Her: I don’t know
  • Me: You know to wash you hands, don’t you. Come over, Cinderella.
  • Her: Who is Cinderella
  • Me: You. (I texted her my address) Tell your mom you’re going to the grocery store ’cause you need something for a smoothie
  • Her: What smoothie ?
  • Me: The one you’ll be having at my place.
  • Her : No response
  • That’s it. I already made it. It’s Mm-mm.

She made it. And we had one smooth-of-a-time. So my tips for folks: answering machines – hang up. Disconnected old numbers -remove. Hard nos- remove. Soft nos -90% they are hard nos. Remember: it started with a phone call, NOT a text. Do not text a woman who may not even remember you.

Videos, Page Two: Women smoking cigars -NSFW unless you’re working at home

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What it means to be an alpha male (redacted) https://wallstreetdealmaker.com/2017/09/what-it-means-to-be-an-alpha-male-redacted/ https://wallstreetdealmaker.com/2017/09/what-it-means-to-be-an-alpha-male-redacted/#respond Fri, 01 Sep 2017 20:36:00 +0000 http://wallstreetdealmaker.com/index.php/2017/09/01/what-it-means-to-be-an-alpha-male-redacted/ There’s such a distorted perception on the subject of “alpha” from the people I talked to, from the users of this site, that the confusion thermometer is way past “high”. If you had a fever this high, the thermometer would explode. This is your daily dose of redpill reality (check … Continue ReadingWhat it means to be an alpha male (redacted)

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There’s such a distorted perception on the subject of “alpha” from the people I talked to, from the users of this site, that the confusion thermometer is way past “high”. If you had a fever this high, the thermometer would explode. This is your daily dose of redpill reality (check this out, too)

So what does it mean to be “alpha”? Let’s start with what it is NOT in the first two pointers below.

1. People that want to “Save the World”. Saving the world is one of the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. People that say or believe that are idiots. The world needs no saving. The world was here before you. The world will be here in some shape or form after you’re gone. The World doesn’t care about you. Stop saying that PC non-sense.

2. People that want to “change the world.” The world will not change, no matter how much you puke out your guts. Your boss will not change. Stop wasting your energy. Stop trying to be Batman or Superman. Want a better way ?

3. Change yourself-that’s the better way.  A lot of my readers are into daily mantras. Instead of reciting the Scorpion King in Sanskrit or Egyptian, here’s better one:

“Never in a Hurry,

Never Worried,

Never Desperate,

Never Stopping Short”

This comes from Ryan Holiday, The Ego is the Enemy. The four line, 10 word mantra works wonders. In fact, stoicism provides many more maxims that go well. I’ve seen a repository of over 600 of them, but I’ll need to curate them and select post them. If anyone’s got some time and wants to work with me on that over the weekend, let me know.

4. Stop playing Captain Save-a-Hoe. Beta males always come to the rescue of women. Alpha males don’t. A woman, like a cat, lands on her feet even when thrown out of the 7th floor balcony. [Ok, that’s a figure of speech, but you get the draft]. White knights are weak, pathetic.

“Captain Save A Hoe often waste time on these hoes in an attempt at love, even though the whole block done run through her. Captain Save A Hoe often end up in the friendzone, if they do a good enough job.”-Hipwiki

5. Couple of years ago, somebody posted a picture of a pack of wolves asserting the “peck order” of the pack. A photo showed 25 wolves walking in a single file line through a snow-covered wilderness with this explanation:


“A wolf pack: the first 3 are the old or sick, they give the pace to the entire pack. If it was the other way round, they would be left behind, losing contact with the pack. In case of an ambush they would be sacrificed. Then come 5 strong ones, the front line. In the center are the rest of the pack members, then the 5 strongest following. Last is alone, the alpha. He controls everything from the rear. In that position he can see everything, decide the direction. He sees all of the pack. The pack moves according to the elders pace and help each other, watch each other.” photo: Cesare Brai’s .

That picture “explanation” (the alpha last in line) in in fact, false. You can read about it these archives at Snopes. The alpha in the wolf pack is the most protected one. He stays in the middle, not in flanks, any surprise attack won’t fall on him. The pack protects the alpha, not the other way around, Surprisingly and contrary to what you’ve been told all your life, the alpha doesn’t protect the pack. The alpha is simply the most valuable member, so it’s the job of the females, the younglings, and the elders to protect him from harm.

6. Women should only be a secondary interest in man’s life. They’re just not that important. They really aren’t. “The most attractive combination of psychological traits in a man are narcissism and happiness. While betas exist to serve women, women exist to serve alphas. Sometimes this dynamic is subtle; other times women will explicitly enjoy being or feeling used up by their alpha male partners. Treat her a little bit like she exists to serve you to establish the desired alpha-to-female relationship pattern.” -Redpill user on Reddit

7. A common problem with guys who don’t have imposing or statuesque physiques: “I’m 5’6″ and weight 130, I wear glasses and spend 60 hours a week on the computer, how can I leverage myself ?”

Suffering is the coin of the realm.” -Pinhead (Hellraiser: Bloodline movie, 1996) -is your answer

It is a misconception an alpha male needs to be some James Bond  lookalike who runs ultra marathons every month. There’s no denying looks help. Yet they don’t define the man. You work with what you have.  What is important is to improve and gain a sense of self esteem from doing it.

8. Being alpha in the end means evolving. Accomplished people subdue the world through presence and statesmanship. There is less need for demonstrations of value. When you look at someone like Stephen Schwartzman  you see an alpha male who is seasoned. With seasoned alphas,

-it’s not the argument, they subdue the atmosphere in the room
-they don’t raise the voice or over-explain themselves
-don’t flinch when questioned
-they retain a sense of control even when downplayed or alienated

Michael Milken is another alpha. He is probably the most intense person I have ever seen. These are people over 70 years of age who have an alpha qualifier or A+++.

Donald Trump, on the other hand, is the type of alpha male who has never evolved and is stuck in the 30 year-old phase. The only game DT understands is the zero sum game. That’s why DT is incapable of rising to the stature of his office (to learn about his tricks, click here).

“A man who always defends his position is already weak.”- Max Cantor maxim #51

9. There’s a lot of material on the basics of dating, you can  check out this one out from John Alexander How to Become an Alpha Male .

In conclusion, I’ve selected a few stoic maxims from Github to keep good company (they’re from Marcus Aurelius, Epitectus or Seneca):

“Above all, make this your business: learn how to feel joy.”

“Does the captain of a ship manage it better by not attending?”

“Every day I plead the case against myself as judge.”

“The willing are led by fate, the reluctant dragged. “

“Will your fate.”

“Just as it is not the last drop that stops the water-clock but every drop that has previously fallen, so the last hour when we cease to exist is not the only one to cause death but the only one to complete it: we reach death then but we have been coming to it for a long time.”

“What else are tragedies but the ordeals of people who have come to value externals, tricked out in tragic verse?”

“For what does reason purport to do? “Establish what is true, eliminate what is false and suspend judgement in doubtful cases.” What else does reason prescribe? “To accept the consequence of what has been admitted to be correct.”

“You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”

“”Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.”

“Sickness harms the body, not the will. Say this to yourself with regard to everything that happens.”

“Remember that you must behave as at a banquet. Is anything brought round to you? Put out your hand and take a moderate share. Does it pass by you? Do not stop it. Has it not yet come? Wait till it reaches you.”

“Do you feel no shame in delivering up your own mind to any reviler, to be confounded.”

“Perfect beings have no power to do harm.”


“No sane man fears the gods.

The immortal gods are neither willing nor able to harm us.”


“Thou wilt find that whatever happens takes place justly, and as if done by some one who distributes all things according to desert.”

“This is education, to learn to wish that things should happen as they do.”

“Women are a bad joke God made on men”.

“Thrasea used to say, ‘He who hates vice hates mankind.”

“The noblest virtue is not fostered by incense and garlands, but by sweat and blood.”

“Thrasea used to say that we should take the side not only of our friends, but of the friendless.”

“Animals who lack reason should be treated nobly and magnanimously.”

“He who spares the bad wrongs the good.”

Fun task: I hid a maxim that doesn’t belong in the list. Will you find it ?

For good measure, let’s a video:

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