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Interview with “Don Johnson”, male, age 37, who has slept with 700+ women

Max Cantor — Thu, 19 Nov 2020 04:10:28 +0000

At the requests of more than a few of you, I pulled hard through my rolodex and made a phone interview with “Don Johnson”, a man I’ve known for a few years whom I’ll call friend of a friend. Now, before we give you the transcript of this call -this was a phone call with New York City, let’s get something straight. This man is not a rockstar; he has never been in a band. He is not a celebrity nor does he wish to capitalize on his “record”. He does not have a Greek God body, he is 5’7″ and weights 150 pounds. He works out 6 days a week he tells me and tennis is his favorite hobby. He is not a Roland-Garros player, however, and does not have a Dan Bilzerian party-hardy lifestyle. He is not a millionaire, although admittedly has a 6-figure income from a job working in legal services.

Max: Hey man, thanks for agreeing to make this call public, on my website. I should say “public” with your name changed and no face shown. People have gotten so picky nowadays, if they don’t put a name to a face, Youtube or something, they get cramps.

Don: So let them get it. I can’t put my face out there.

Max: Understood. You have a regular job. Pulling ass is not your occupation. That’s how I introduced you: you are not a dating coach, not a Roland-Garros champion, not a heir to some fortune. Not a pornstar. Not a rockstar. We got that out of the way.

Don: Good.

Max: For 99.9% of men in America, you pulled a record. [I have a record of my own, but is smaller by comparison…]

Don: We’re all doing the best we can, Max. I know you’d be upping your numbers if you weren’t so damn busy.

Max: Let’s get right to it. What’s the secret sauce ? How do you get them, and how do you get them so fast ? Or I should say: How are you so effective ?

Don: Your vibe, man. The hippies were right: it’s your vibe. And by the way I get more women who are married / in relationships that I get single women. There is no such thing as a single woman, my man.

Max: My readers and I, we talk to women. But we don’t get them into bed. We get maybe 5%. How do you ?

Don: I’m pretty clear from the beginning. You see, just as women are gaging me, I gage them, too. I read women fast, within 5-30 seconds. If she is not a suitable prospect, I eject.

Max: And I thought I don’t try hard enough. I thought we [men] give up too quickly, or using your words,” eject” too soon.

Don: No. You guys fluster and flip all over the place. You don’t have the right concentration. I take their buying temperature and raise it faster than mercury. Then, when I’m around them, you see, I always -maybe not now cause of the Covid shit -am right up to their faces. I am into their personal space. Even if I don’t say much, or say nothing at all. No need to grab their butts to do that.

Max: Makes sense. What else ?

Don: I used to throw a weekly party at my place, and I’d invite them.

Max: No cocaine at those parties, huh ?

Don: Nah. I don’t need that. I have a stripper’s pole, professional, and I let them wonder around it. Most chicks have never seen or used one.

Max: There you go. Cats can play with the string. You know, last Christmas in my gift buying list I recommended men buy and fix one up in their bedrooms. And where you do find them ladies ?

Don: Everywhere. On the street, subway, bus, classes, seminars, conferences, outings.

Max: You’re a class act. You make wives and girlfriends happy.

Don: I do. We are wired for novelty: when a man meets a woman, assuming they are attracted to each other, you have a period of 6 months, perhaps a bit longer, during which sex should be consumed. If she rejects you (or you reject her) for all intents and purposes she is relegated to history. If you can’t consume sex within that period, your attraction to her automatically drops. Simply put, your genetic screen blanks out to that woman. You see her again one or two years later: let me tell you, you won’t be attracted to her anymore. She’s the same woman, still looking good…but under the laws of nature, old news is no news. Meanwhile, if you two get together you might even fall in love but be prepared for the expiration date. There’s an expiration date for the attraction towards any woman, and I mean even the most beautiful woman in the world.

Max: I talked about the falling “out-of-love” concept too, in one of this year’s articles. But I never thought that your “attraction” receptors are a one time receptor and after one frequency gets used it never gets synced again. Am I putting this right, Don ?

Don: Absolutely. Falling in love is followed by falling out of love with ANY woman. This is why men must have rotations.

Max: I agree. How do you keep them from dumping you, though ?

Don: You don’t. Nobody is “dumping” you. The leaves are naturally falling of the trees. Happens every year.

Max: Wow, nobody has made that association before. Don’t you make any efforts to keep your women interested in you ?

Don: Not really. I keep it at a bare minimum. Remember, I used to make $25K a year when I graduated high-school. I had the same number of women in rotation back then. Some birds were staying for a month, while some were in for a year. I didn’t mind. You’re free to leave me when you do. I was sharing my lunches with some, while others were paying my rent. I did not mind either.

Max: Man, you sound like some freestyling, freewheeling Casanova. I bet you’re good in bed [no homo].

Don: I keep them on their toes. You can say I do what they don’t expect and what they don’t get. But it’s my razor sharp focus that allows me to score while others fail. But I don’t fuck every night. That would be exhausting to anyone with a busy career. However, I get some nights when I fuck three girls, the 8 PM shift, the 10 PM and then the 12 AM shift.

Max: What else can men do to get to your level ? Obviously, most men don’t go out every night, especially during Covid you can’t really go out anywhere. The clubs and restaurants have to close at 10 PM in New York.

Don: Stay busy. Learn how to read a woman and raise her interest. Be social. Close on the spot. Let her talk about herself -women think more of themselves than anything else. Their favorite subject is themselves after all.

Max: Listen, I need to do a Part Two with you. Thank you for this call.

Don: Sure. Bye.

Music video: Dancing people are never Wrong. Even if you don’t like this music, you gotta keep ’em dancing.

Until next time,

Your Man,

Max

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The 10 Biggest Lies Women Tell

Max Cantor — Sun, 27 Sep 2020 22:12:31 +0000

In the previous post Women game men since birth I promised to delve into some inter-sexual relationships dynamics. I’ve repeatedly touched on this subject over the years, and the men who have taken notice are staying safe. Those who haven’t, well, those are in the majority, they get taken to the cleaners on the long misery road paved by the femdom society.

Women are master manipulators. They not only lie with a straight face, but they undermine even the men they have a genuine interest in. Why would anyone in the world do that, you ask ? They do it because it’s fun. It’s the way of the femdom (Femdom = keyword derived from female + kingdom, the societal structure of the modern, Western society). The USA is a femdom. Although not outright declared a femdom, women’s “empowerment” push is a disguised supremacy movement. Back to relationships and the Jezebels tales:

1. Women lie about the number of sexual partners they’ve had. You’ll need to X2 (multiply by two) in some cases, or X3 (multiply by three) in other cases to get the number of their sexual partners. Why ? Women do not include oral sex (receiving or giving) or even anal sex count when they count. In many cases they don’t even include one-night stands into their sexual history. They’re inwardly ashamed of their record while keeping it under tight lips.

2. Women sexual fantasies are more extreme or deviant than men’s fantasies. Read Nancy Friday. Don’t ask your girlfriend. Don’t even ask the women in your family or close circle. They’ll never tell you. They got vibrators worn as accessories nowadays these women shove up their labias and asses at the same time they put on their earrings. (they’re remote-control operated and you charge them with your standard portable power stick).

3. Related the the point 1.), by and large, millennial/Gen-Z women have more sexual partners than millennial/Z men do. Traditionally throughout history , it was men, with their stronger sexual drives who had more sex than women. In the last two decades (perhaps three decades), this historic trend reversed, and it is women who have more sex, more often, and with more people than men do.

3. When a girl says and -believe it- some girls openly declare to the whole world on their Instagram account- that she’s never been happier with you than she is, never felt more understood and accepted…all that bullshit…it’s lie. Your time with her is coming to an end, and she’ll split in a matter of months…or weeks. Look for the next announcement… of an “amicable split”…You’re in for a hard landing…or perhaps a soft landing.

4. Every woman gets tired of her man. They’ll never tell you that, though. Women cheat more than men, yet men keep the secret, while women will blast it out to damage the reputation of the man they are cheating with. That’s why we say here that marriage is a scam. So any woman who is married for a couple of years or in an LTR for years is fair game.

5. When a girl says: “I need time” it’s really “You’re not it.” Move on. You and her are history.

6. There so much debate among people as to what makes a man attractive to women. Women say: it’s money. Status. Success. Looks, and so forth. While all of those count, in reality there’s ONLY ONE MAJOR factor of attractiveness: [if] you are already fucking an attractive woman. That’s the game changer. If you already have an attractive woman, preferably several, your desirability shoots though the roof.

7. Women must be allowed to periodically cry, be upset over you and their situation with you. Don’t try and comfort them. If they’re not frustrated with you, you’re not it.

8. When a girl says she’s looking for a good man, that’s the signal to bail out. In this society, a “good man” means a man with no backbone. “Good man wanted” is a red flag sign.

9. If you have the chance, study her current boyfriend (or husband). You want to be the opposite of that, in most everything: looks, demeanor, occupation, hobbies and interests, habits, even temper. Of course, she’ll never tell you that. She’s a woman. She’ on the lying squad.

10. After having been though so many relationships I lost count of, I can tell you there is no love. Or love is all that is. For 24 hours at a time. Or 24 months. The more ephemeral, the better. It just so happens the brightest fire lasts the shortest.

Until next time,

Your man,

Max

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Memo’s fine notes

Max Cantor — Sun, 26 Apr 2020 06:14:37 +0000

After writing the Memo from April 14 and being barraged with questions, I put some further thoughts here. The fine print. People reading this will understand not everybody needs to be a *playboy* and not everyone can be a playboy. So these ruminations do not apply to most people. You are welcomed to disagree with these points.

People who didn’t like my Memo’s line “Women are a sport” need to understand women, all women of fertile age are players of men. In other words, men are women’s sport naturally. From day one women learn to manipulate men with a a smile and a cry. Women joust for men’s attention. It starts with their father. A father who caters to his daughter’s needs by welcoming petulant behavior has already set her up to become a master manipulator of men. In the modern American culture there are close to none -think 10 in a million- fathers who discipline and counter the attention-seeker vanity behavior of girls.

2. A playboy – or better, let’s use the term “woman connoisseur” if you prefer-, knows women and knows their vanity is based on thin clouds. As such he does not give any intrinsic value to womanhood. Women derive their value from outside validation. So do a lot of men, but this appearance-based vanity is staple of womanhood.

Let’s get into the meat of the things now

3. A woman connoisseur does not have a relationship with any woman for longer than 6-12 months, at best. This will sound crude to many. but think about it… a couple of months is enough to fall in love and fall out-of-love. After a few months the novelty is gone. Novelty and infatuation are the meat and bones of a love that a woman has for a man. What those “relationship coaches” and therapist won’t tell you, I will. There is no way to regain the novelty.

4. When two people fall in love… they don’t see (they blindly and blissfully ignore) there will be a “falling out-of-love.” Love is a drug. This is not just the title of a song and it is not a stereotype. It’s been scientifically studied and the conclusion is love is an addiction with a similar neural pathways as the heroin and cocaine addictions.

5. As opposed to the regular guy, the woman connoisseur exits before she does. He knows she will get bored, and rather than wait for her symptoms of wear and tear, he walks out. Like any addiction, love has a withdrawal period characterized by deep lows. For all intents and purposes, love is a disease with clinical signs, symptoms and pathology.

6. A woman connoisseur works to tear down a woman’s ego. That’s not because he’s an asshole. That’s because good-looking women have overblown egos. They’ve built that humongous, insatiable ego over years and years of getting attention and supplication from dozens, sometimes hundreds of men. You got to deflate that balloon. One blow in, 9 deflating breaths out.

7. After reading the above, it becomes clear in marriages and long-term relationship people are really just teammates of sorts who stay together for the mutual goal of raising children and having an economic alliance. That’s all there’s is to a marriage. There is not, there can not be “love”.

8. I’ve said it many times before, marriage is a favor men do for women. “Having a relationship” is never the goal of the woman connoisseur.

9. Entire articles and papers, movies and such have been done on the woman connoisseur’s past times and hobbies, eg. they are sailors, adventurers, artist-types, etc. Journalists are known to have access to a large network of people., often women.

10. The main difference between the regular guy and the woman connoisseur is that the connoisseur places negative value on female beauty. The only way to balance that is with his presence.

11. Salt-and-pepper hair, eccentric outfits, earrings, all that helps. How do you stand out from the crowd ?

12. The woman connoisseur knows beautiful women have the world at their feet. He’s asking himself this one question: How do I make myself some money out of it, and have the most fun while doing it ?

We’re going to circle back to the subject of the playboy, since this was just a short outline.

Included: some interviews with Mark Spiegler, the “chaperone” of many women working the high-end adult industry. He may have some insights.

Doesn’t exactly look like the playboy, but profits from it

Memo from Max Cantor

Max Cantor — Tue, 14 Apr 2020 21:11:38 +0000

Howard Marks of Oaktree Capital Management [net worth $2.2 Bn] is a guy who regularly sends out his investment briefs and is well regarded in the investment world, almost every fund manager reads him. If you wanted to read his latest, click here. But that’s not why we’re here. We’re not here to talk about Covid-19 and the economy. I thought, why not write with a “Memo from” format. Not going to make it regular though.

The last post “10 Tips for your Women life” made some readers ask: “Well, how do I get laid like you, Max ? How can I score like a champ ? How do I keep them coming ?

Fair enough. You want to be the Don Juan of Booby Fields.

You’re looking at me like I’m the Howard Marks of Booty Calls.

Understand: unless you have a specialized set of skills, unless you have many techniques under your belt, your lay number will be small. You’ll get a woman down for 3 lays, or 30 lays, and then she’ll leave. She will leave you…because it’s the same thing every time and who wants the same thing over and over again ? Nobody does.

Number 2 on my “10 Tips” clearly states: “While in a relationship, you need to line up your [sex] dates in “lessons” fashion.“

You need to maintain a Master -Student rapport at all times.

Give a little…every time.

Change, recharge, variate the interaction-of course you need to be sexually skilled for that. You have to go beyond the plain vanilla sex skills of the average guy, or you’ll never be a playboy.

Everybody says that “makeup sex is great”. Why ? Because makeup comes after a breakup. What they’re missing is the part that’s a one time event, then … still the same ol’.

Still stuck in a rut.

Lessons -sessions need to arranged in methodical fashion. It takes 7 year, on average, to master a skill. It takes a lifetime to master golf. Imagine that.

In this sport -sex- having more partners does one good. Experimenting is paramount.

For the playboy -make no mistake -women are a sport.

Personalize, accessorize. This is a process. You either love process improvement or you don’t.

Then you have to tailor it to your lover. To each one. If you don’t do that, your conquests will be few, and your flings will be short-lived.

Lessons and practices

Buy the woman/wife a stripper pole and make her work on it every day. I already suggested it last December.

2. BDSM. There is light BDSM and there is extreme BDSM. We’re not here to promote Hogtied. You shouldn’t tie anybody who is not someone that you know well, and who you’re not comfortable with. You can check out Ballistic Metal Suspension Bar with chain / Spreader Bar or this Heavy Duty Suspension System. But sex that’s not kinky, it is lost.

3. Kinky is also if you have your partner suspended in the air and you fuck [preferred pronoun] upside down and sideways. You could try a Aerial Yoga Hammock Anti-gravity Inversion Swing Trapeze Belt Ceiling system. It’s inexpensive. (example: from China: buy link)

4. Threesomes are an experience, but there so much to talk about, it deserves a separate writing. Threesomes can be fully engaged, OR where you’re fucking another woman and she is ONLY WATCHING (voyeur-role).

5. What about foursomes ? Orgies ? They don’t work unless there’s a directing dynamic from you. In other words, you are directing here with verbal commands and gestures: do this and that [with that couple/guy/girl/group] and you stay connected. This is a Director’s job. If you lose that connection, you’ve lost. That is why this is an advanced practice and can easily backfire.

Remember: if you’re not maintaining the Master-to-Student dynamic, you haven’t done a thing.

Lessons should be graded. If the student is not making progress in class, guess what ? She gets a F (hopefully not); you may not be compatible after all.

Let us have students who are happily As and Bs. Flunkies usually get dropped.